I would just like to put this out there!!! You have to live your life for you not other people!! Taking care of yourself doesn't mean you're selfish, it just means you know the importance of taking care of you!! I have learned this lesson the hard way.. Please believe I'm going to do everything I want to do and always put my wants and needs in front of everyone!! If you don't take care of self you can't take care of anyone else!! Just keep praying and know that things will be great if you keep him first!! So my Kings and Queens stay blessed!!